In guter Beziehung - Liebe ich auch den anderen?

hey guys I have a big problem...
I'm in love with my boyfriends friend!
I have a close relationship to my boyfriend for 2 years now.
he's italian like his friend..and they are good friends supporting each other
whatever I do I am always thinking of his friend..even when I'm spending
some time with my boyfriend.It is not normal for sure.
what could I do now? leave him for another one whereas my boyfriend is treating
me like a princess?? please comment on this questions because I really
need your help! thanks

hello guys..it's me again..my problem isn't solved yet.
Yesterday I asked myself if I really love my boyfriend's friend
or whether it is just an attraction to his friend.
I'm still confused and I don't know what to do.
On the one hand I have a good-looking boyfriend who is spending
the most time of his everyday life in the bathroom (..nearly a perfectionist),
an italian boyfriend who takes care of me, who is taking care of his skin like I am
doing (haha solarium the best one..) and a boyfriend who has already
future plans with me. What I forgot to mention..I'm eighteen years old, mature enough
to understand love stuff etc..
To outline my main problem: I have a good relationship to my boyfriend for 2 years and 9 months
now.I don't know his friend quite well like he does.
There was no good moment to get to know him better..what a pity.
Everytime my boy is telling my the newest information about his friends life, I get so nervous.
I get blush.I often feel uncomfortable..all that just because of his friend.
Now I'm thinking that I am the worst girlfriend in the world!
His friend is a tabu for me..I know that, but I still cannot appreciate that.
Ohh damn.I have to forget about his friend..trying to keep him outta my mind. I have to before I will ruin
my relationship. I like both guys but I can't make a decision.
I don't want to break up with my boy and I don't want to cause any trouble.HELP!

hello leute..könnt ihr mal zu den beiträgen " being attracted to my boyfriends friend" und "loving the boyfriends friend" antworten schreiben???
würde mich sehr interessieren..also bitte bleibt dran!!!

haah jetzt hab ich euch angelockt..hoffe ihr schreibt auch mal ne gudde antwort darauf..also: ich bin in einer guten beziehung, mein problem ist dass ich nicht weiss ob ich einen anderen auch liebe.es ist der freund von meinem freund.manchmal denke ich an ihn.es gibt sogar so zeiten, wo ich tagelang mir den kopf über ihn zerbreche.ist es liebe?er kennt mich und sagt meinem freund auch immer wieder " heey du hast eine gute freundin,sei ihr treu und bleib bei ihr, verletz sie nicht!". anlächeln und mir tief in die augen blicken,während er mit meinem freund redet tut er auch.ich weiss nicht mehr weiter.hilft mir.bisjetzt hab ich sooft dieses thema angesprochen und keiner hat geantwortet.ich helf euch doch auch täglich.also? grazie schon mal im vorraus!

danke..hast du vllt auch nen guten tipp parat?